Tuesday, May 31, 2011

Two Sentences Can End a Relationship

I was talking to a good friend of mine the other day. He's going through a divorce and was recalling some of the advice he'd gotten over the years about marriage and making it work.

While he couldn't quite remember who told him this piece of advice, he's never forgotten the words: "It only takes two sentences to end a relationship."

Intrigued, I took the bait. "What sentences are those," I asked.

So, he gave me an example:

Woman says: "I want a divorce!"
Man says: "Fine. Send me the papers. I'll sign anything!"

My friend explained that if you say the wrong thing or make an idle threat, you may live to eat those words. Your partner may just call your bluff and then call it quits!

If you say it mean it. And if you're not ready to back it up...then shut up.

Peace y'all!

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Thursday, May 26, 2011

Instructions On Waiting For The Man God Has For You



While waiting on your Boaz, ladies, don't settle for any of his relatives:


Brokeaz
Poaz
Lyingaz
Cheatingaz
Dumbaz
Downlowaz
Fakeaz
Cryingaz
Lockedupaz
Goodfornothingaz
Lazyaz
and especially his distant third cousin...
Beatyoaz!!!

Please, please, please wait on your Boaz! 



He also needs to respect yoaz!!!

(And yes, that's Barack & Michelle on their wedding day.)

Monday, May 23, 2011

Are You Really THAT Great of a Woman?



Time and time again, I've heard women say: "I don't understand why he's fooling around with other women when he knows he's already got a great woman -- ME!"

Baby girl, get a clue!



Anyone who was truly great never REALLY had to tell anyone about their greatness. (Okay, so Muhammad Ali is the exception here.) But you never hear Oprah bragging. Prince doesn't call himself "His Royal Badness." And you never see Pres. Obama talking about his status. For crying out loud, Jesus didn't even spend time trying to convince people of his greatness...and he's the one person who could!


Let me put it to you like this: If you were that great of a woman, you'd know it's not the wisest use of your time trying to convince a man who doesn't agree with you.


Peace!


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Wednesday, May 18, 2011

Here's Why I Don't Worry About My Man Cheating

Here's Why I Don't Worry About My Man Cheating

I don't worry about my man cheating because worrying about it isn't going to stop him if he wants to do it. I'm not around him at all times of the day. There's PLENTY of opportunity for anyone to cheat if they want to. So, what's my worrying going to do to stop it?

A married girlfriend shared this wisdom with me several years ago...and they've been together 10 years.

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Do You REALLY Want A GOOD Man?

Do You REALLY Want A GOOD Man?


1) If you really want a good man in your life, stop being so suspicious of him when you meet him. Good guys don't have ulterior motives. They don't want to lure you in so they can lock you down.

2) If you've had a string of bad relationships or even abusive ones, and this makes you suspicious of good men who approach you, then take a break from dating. Give yourself a chance to give that GOOD MAN a chance!!!

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Monday, May 16, 2011

A Common Mistake Women Make With Men


Ladies, embarrassing your man in public is a no-no! I see girlfriends do this all the time, then wonder why their man has an attitude the rest of the night. Jokes shared at home between the two of you are best left AT HOME! Mentions of his crooked left baby toe are off limits when you're in front of company. 



Sure, men are the stronger sex, but their egos cannot tolerate public embarrassment. Make your man look good in public, and he'll make you feel good all the time! 


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Saturday, May 14, 2011

If You're Depressed...

Depressed people think it's difficult to be happy. They may have a happy moment here and there, but find it challenging to maintain those happy feelings. But have you ever noticed that happy people feel the same way about being depressed? They just can't stay depressed for long. Even after a problem presents itself, before they know it, they're right back to recognizing their blessings and being happy!

To the depressed person: Put in the time and the effort to find your happiness. It's worth the work to be in a happy place!!!

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Friday, May 13, 2011

I Think My Lover is Cheating on Me

If you have a "sinking feeling" that your lover or spouse is cheating on you...why stick around long enough to drown?
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Tuesday, May 3, 2011

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