Monday, May 28, 2012

From One-Night-Stand to You're The One!

Everyday, I meet miserably single women who question whether they'll meet Mr. Right. And I've heard it all. These ladies have said everything from, "I am one step away from being a lesbian" to "It's official -- I'm gong to become a nun and marry Jesus."
Then they start to question sex -- how fast they gave it up, how long they made the guy wait for it, how much experience they have, whether they're giving it up enough and if celibacy is the key. 

Truth is...there is no right answer. Sure, if you live according to biblical teachings and principles then you should abstain from sex and wait for marriage to engage in sex and then be sure to satisfy your husband's needs and vice versa. But if you're like millions of single ladies who are already having premarital sex and are questioning how sex should be handled in a relationship...well, I can't help you. 

Why?

Because I know women who have been successfully married for 5, 10 and 20+ years who all had WIDELY different sexual experiences prior to their SUCCESSFUL marriages. 

One lady I know was a virgin when she met her husband, who was a virgin, too. And they decided to wait until after marriage before having sex. They're still together to this day, just as attracted to each other today as they were all those years ago. You should know this couple definitely does things to keep it fresh in the bedroom and they should win an award for "getting it in" like they do! 

Another blissfully married couple I know actually never intended to do more than enjoy each other as sex buddies. Who knew it would evolve into love and a fantastic family. (They've got some great kids!)

I know yet another couple that literally thought they'd only be a one-night stand to one another. Eight years, three children and a house later, they're still "lookin' so crazy in love," to quote Beyonce. 

This is another short-but-sweet blog entry. My only purpose here is to tell you to find your own path to love. Don't worry so much about what it is you think you're "supposed" to do when it comes to sex and love. You do what's right for you and your relationship with God. And if you're Agnostic, then you do what feels right for you. 

Bottom line: There is no real secret formula, one-size-fits-all approach for sex and the successful relationship.

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