She's Happy, But He's Cheating!

This is how the story goes: Guy proposes to girl. Girl is happy. They're finally tying the knot. 

Here's the back story: Even though she's caught him cheating at least 4 times over the past 8 years, she's still going to link up for life with this man and make it official. 

Well, as the old folks say, he's going to make her an honest woman. The question on the table is, "Can HE be an honest man?!?!"

You see, this fool is still cheating and is planning to do so up until the night before his wedding...AND WITH A MARRIED WOMAN! In fact, she knows he's proposed to his lady and is getting married and she's still consenting to continue her affair with him the night before his wedding.

Then I started wondering what allows a man who's been busted continue to cheat? One word...

arrogance.

It's arrogance because he doesn't seem to think he'll get caught...again. 

It's arrogance because he's not considering what news of this crap will do to his bride-to-be.

It's arrogance because if his daddy used that same logic on his mama, he'd want to kill him!

But then again, maybe it's not HIS arrogance that lets him keep cheating. Maybe it's her desperation to be married. Maybe it's her fear of being alone, so she'll keep a man at any cost. Maybe it's her insecurity causing her to feel she'll never be able to find another man. 

Kinda makes you wonder if they were PERFECT for each other. He's a mess and she willingly cleans it up. Sounds like simpatico to me!

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